May 15th is my wedding anniversary. Donna and I were married May 15, 1983. This would be or is our 40th anniversary. Interesting that writing that exemplifies the struggle for me to use past tense or current tense. We're still married even if the line about till death do us part exists. Her death did not part us. In a way it brought us closer. The wound of grief allowed light in to me. I discovered more about me, us, and her as I slow walked my grief path.